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Thursday, April 23, 2009 @ Thursday, April 23, 2009 +

Hello, I just was contemplating and thinking that well something is up.

Especially when some men abuse their authority as a husband by having affairs and abusing their wives and think that their wives are alright with it.

And with such stories that I have uncovered, I realize that we women are suppressed. Totek.
Well I think its time to end this era and let the tits rule for once.
But before we jump to such conclusions, lets evaluate a couple of case studies.

Right, moving on.

Case Study 1

Jimmy Tan is a well known man of a prestigious advertising firm. He already has one wife. Recently, a business proposal had led him to Indonesia of where he met a cosmopolitan, sexy, all that in bed woman. She was young of course, compared to his wife who was already passed her 40s. So yeah, he married this chick and returned back to his country. Only thing is that he didn't bring his new wife along with him. Instead, he told both wives that he was TEMPORARILY MARRIED to appease both of them.

What does TEMPORARILY MARRIED mean?
Simple. When Jimmy is in Indonesia he is married to the young chick. When he is in Singapore, he is not married to her but his 40 year old wife.

Now I have done my research and in both countries there is certainly no such constitution. Why did her marry her then? And by making such a statement, did he really love both of them equally?
My guess is that young and lively beats old and lumpy anytime.
But lets not make judgment just yet k.

Case Study 2

The Sultan of Perak is a fine man of dignity and pride. He takes care of the country and as every king does, he has a queen by his side too. On a political business trip, he went to Thailand. Now, the women there are simply exotic. I'm sure the Sultan can agree with me for he fell in love with a Thailand girl from a little village. However, the chief only said that if the Sultan agreed to marry her that he can have her. So that's exactly what he did. He did more too. He pampered his new bride with a luxurious house, car and all the 5Cs that I wish I had too.
Now, he returned back to Perak with his new bride. The queen of course was furious. But what could she do? Her power was not as poignant as that of the king. She was forced to accept.
Which brings me to these questions...
a) how can you marry another without your wife's consent?
b) how are you treating each wife equally when you have already defied one?

Anyways, this queen was smart. She hired a bomoh and got the new bride murdered. It was a brutal one too. And of course due to the country's indiscretion, the bomoh was not convicted and the Sultan and Queen are still married.

What do I think?
I think the Queen would make an awesome villain for a Batman Movie. And she can do it without even lifting a finger.

Case Study 3

Men in countries such as Pakistan believe that it is God's will to rape woman. However, this men are blinded by ignorance. They are not educated let alone been to school and base all their beliefs on people who can read the Quran but not interpret it. But since, the government cant be bothered with such crimes, the woman can't do much.
Sad isn't it?

Yeah, as I was saying, we woman are suppressed.
Anyways, what I'm trying to say is that yes, it is a sin to get divorced. But you mean to tell me that God wishes for you to continue in a marriage where you are abused emotionally more than mentally.
I mean, come on, which wife would really want her husband to marry another? Of course, she would do it out of love to keep her husband happy. But when you really think about it, the poor woman would be living a lie for the rest of her life.

I repeat, sad isn't it?

However, we don't live in Pakistan or Afghanistan or countries as such where the men treat the woman well like shit.
We live in a hot sunny tropical damn fucking humid Singapore. And hell we have rights.

So if you have a man in your life, doing something behind your back, please please please make sure you got your facts right first. He could be planning a trip for the 2 of you to the Bahamas and we wouldn't want that plan going down the drain now would we?
So yes, get your facts right, get witness and if all the bits fall into the right places for all the wrong reasons, don't be afraid to kick some balls. Literally.

Which bring me to the next point....

NATASHA FRANCISCA HAMID
Services: Eccentric Lawyer and Private Investigator
Specialties: finding the truth
Price: negotiable
*Cup noodles not included during meetings*

Love Loves,
Natasha

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