No, its not the
F word. Yeah, I wish it was but that would be too vulgar to be posted here. The four letter word would be
LOVE. Yes, the word that makes the world go around. And I thought it was
money, but besides that point, whatever you're going to read is
based on my own personal opinion. If you have anything against it, go and
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Let's get started. What's the definition of love? Just for today, I won't be using the
walking dictionary, so I'll quote the definition from a proper dictionary...
yeah right
a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction
Err, I think that sounded wrong. Maybe another definition
a strong positive emotion of regard and affection
I think this sounds nicer
But lets face it, how many of us really know what love is? We fall in love for the different reasons. We
think we are in love with someone just because that someone is being nice to us. But do we
really know what his/her
/it motive is for being nice to us? For all he/she knows, maybe its just his/her nature to be friendly towards
anyone. I have a friend
who happens to be me who treats everyone like as though he has known you for years. Its just his nature to be friendly but he is not leading you on. He is just that way. It doesn't mean by treating you a little more friendlier means he likes you to the extend of making you his. Yes, he loves you, but as a friend.
It is a true that people fall in love when they grow closer to each other but there is this golden rule that everyone should follow.
Never ever date your close friend! Cause when you do break up, trust me, it would never be the same feeling again. You will look at them with a different feeling. The chances of being the same as before is pretty minimal unless of course the relationship was not much of a difference when you were together officially and unofficially.
A gentle reminder, this entry wasn't meant to teach or educate the general public about the way of life but instead an entry of the blogger's reflections and thoughts. Again, may I repeat this is just an opinion of one person.
Let me give you a scenario. I don't expect you to understand it straight away because I won't go into the fine details. Ready? Lets go.
There is this boy (lets call him Nintendo) who has a girlfriend (lets call her Danna) So while they were together, Nintendo met another girl (lets call her Janet) Nintendo thought Janet was pretty nice so he decide to be friends with Janet. After months of knowing Janet, he acts a little funnier towards her. He does those little boyfriend things to her, which Janet knows is wrong because if you have realized from the start, Nintendo has a girlfriend. So Janet decided to ask Nintendo if it is true that he likes her. Nintendo did admit to her that he genuinely likes Janet, but when questioned about what exactly they are (attached, scandal, etc) his answer is the most classical all guys will say to cover the trust which they know the ladies can never handle. The answer is obviously "I don't know". Nintendo doesn't talk about Danna to Janet which Janet finds weird. So Janet decided to ask opinions from her friends. There were things like
'maybe they are on the rocks' and also '
he likes you alot' but Janet already knows all this answers by herself. There is something else that he is hiding. When Janet when over to his apartment, she saw Danna's photo and damn she told herself,
'they sure don't look like as though they are on the rocks'. So now she is in a mess. Why is Nintendo making her like him when he knows, in fact they know that he has a girlfriend. What are his motives? There are a few scenarios which I can think of now. Maybe there are on the rocks but if they are indeed on the rocks, that means Janet might be the float. Another term, she might be the bloody spare tire. How would you feel if you were the substitute? Nobody would like it. Okay the other scenario would be he leaves the girlfriend and goes with Janet. But then again, if he could do it to Danna, he can do it to Janet as well. Maybe another one would be the worst case scenario, Nintendo has to leave Janet alone and just finish what he started with Danna before he gets more involved with Janet. There are more but lets just end it here. We shall see what happens after that. We shall wait for fate to decide. But just some background knowledge, Janet is currently going through this love sick phase which will not last for long.
That's it....
.: EnD :.
