Let me tell you what I do when I'm bored. I like to read. Oh yes. I do read and I do read blogs. Not cause I want to know what the person is up to
(cause I think that thoughts like that should be written in a diary) but instead I try to pick out personal opinions and thoughts about a certain subject. Okay, maybe I'm not making any sense to you right now but hear me out.
(in this case, read me out)
'Boys will be BOYS' and 'Men are ALL THE SAME'
Lets just admit it, this are famous lines said by women all around the world when they can't seem to get the right man. Right? Isn't that agreeable. Or when they go through hell with one man and put the blame on all the other men (mind you they don't know who the hell you are but they get the blame for it) who has done nothing wrong to that particular woman. Right? Then we men counter that line by saying 'all woman are hard to please' which is somewhat true BUT not all woman share the same trait.
This is a very debatable subject which if brought forward to the UN will cause headaches to all the powers of the world but in actual fact, its one of the easiest things to go through. What? You don't believe me? Let me tell you how people (mind you I said people cause I'm trying my best to fit my feet into a woman's heals) derive to the conclusion that one person is the same as all his or her other counterpart genders. I don't understand that line but lets just go on.
Lets make up a simple story (which to now sounds so damn cliche but Hollywood is still making money out of it) so that everyone understands the situation.
Woman meets man ---> Falls in love with man---> Then man leaves woman for another woman ---> Then BAM! MEN ARE ALL THE SAME!
Woman meets man ---> Falls in love with man ---> Then man leaves woman cause he's bored of her ---> Then BAM! MEN ARE ALL THE SAME
Woman meets man ---> Falls in love with man ---> Falls madly deeply in love with man ---> Finds out man is actually a married man ---> Then BAM! MEN ARE ALL THE SAME
Ah yes yes yes, there are more but then again, I don't know everyone in the world. So you get my point. No? Neither do I but this is my stand, in every story that is portrayed here, there are things in between the points that are not filled up. Just because one idiot screws up doesn't mean all men are the same. You can't simply put the blame on other people just because of what happened. So instead of pushing the blame, why not fill up the gaps first. Yes, we all know that man have a greater sex drive than woman but they too have feelings, not as much as woman but enough for them to think of their actions.
And men, simple theory. If you must leave for whatever nonsense there is, do come up with a good enough excuse to do so. Leaving them hanging is not a good thing. Okay, if we look at the global stats, which everyone knows I don't have them here so I shall smoke my way out of this, there is an increasing number of people who are actually either changing their gender or marrying the same gender. Why? Its because of this.
Woman decides to hate men and thus runs to woman for comfort. Man thinks that woman are hard to satisfy and then runs to satisfy man. So its a chain reaction thing. It has to work both ways. If woman don't give up easily, there wouldn't be a lot of lesbians roaming the streets and if man were man enough to admit that they can't handle it anymore, there would be enough straight girls left for man to date. Totally agreeable?
So here are ways to work things out.
WOMAN
1. Find a new man.
2. Flirt with them to get to know them BUT don't sell yourself!
3. Break their hearts if you know they are cheating on you
4. Just don't turn to lesbians, man still needs you
MAN
1. Get the 'idiots guide to understanding woman'
2. Come up with better creative reasons for dumping the girl if you have to
3. Don't commit if you know you can't
4. Just try to understand them. They're good. You only have to entertain their nonsense once a month during the 'bleed it out' period.
So are we all agreeable to that?
.: LoVe mY ShA :.